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Harmony Seeker<p>Tonight in class we explored relational ethics, also known as caring ethics. I’m skipping over the lesson itself to focus on what came up for me.</p><p>There is an assumption in relational ethics that every one has access to multiple caring relationships beyond therapy. Therapy offers connection, others in a person's life are expected to provide emotional nourishment as well. Some people arrive without any safe relationships. Many carry histories of trauma, neglect, or isolation. In those situations, therapy becomes the one space offering presence and care. Rules and boundaries shape the work, the relationship often holds the entire emotional weight.</p><p>Helping others often gets presented as a response to loneliness. Service becomes a substitute for connection. Provide care, contribute meaningfully, fill time with acts of support. None of this addresses the core need. Loneliness demands recognition, conection and shared experience. External acts do not replace mutual relationships.</p><p>Another question arose around empathy. We were asked to think about when we first showed empathy. My answer surprised me. Therapy offered the first safe space where empathy emerged. Childhood lacked attunement, emotional safety, or reflective experience. In that environment, empathy could grow. Survival required internal distance.</p><p>During trauma work, a therapeutic relationship provided attuned presence. Over time, emotional empathy stirred. Later experience gave it permission to form and take root.</p><p>Some conversations treat empathy as universal or innate. This creates pressure, erasing different pathways toward growth. People raised without emotional safety often build these capacities during adulthood.</p><p><a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Counselling" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Counselling</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Therapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Therapy</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/RelationalEthics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>RelationalEthics</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/CaringEthics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CaringEthics</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Trauma</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Empathy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Empathy</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Loneliness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Loneliness</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/MentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/TherapistTraining" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TherapistTraining</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/RelationalTherapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>RelationalTherapy</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Attachment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Attachment</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/TraumaRecovery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TraumaRecovery</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/CPTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CPTSD</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Healing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Healing</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/EthicsInTherapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>EthicsInTherapy</span></a></p>
earthling<p>It's Attachment by Annette Kussin, 2020</p><p>How do we make sense of our relationships—successes and failures, preferences and challenges, past and present. And after we make sense of them all—what do we do to increase the successes that we are striving to attain.</p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/bookstodon" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>bookstodon</span></a></span> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>books</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/nonfiction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>nonfiction</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/attachment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>attachment</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>relationships</span></a></p>
Buddhistdoor Global (BDG)<p>BDG feature: Finding Calm: Buddhist Insights on Managing Anxiety</p><p>🔗 Read more: <a href="https://tinyurl.com/4954zd5b" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">tinyurl.com/4954zd5b</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Buddhism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Buddhism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Mindfulness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Mindfulness</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/BuddhistPractice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>BuddhistPractice</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Stress" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Stress</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Anxiety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Anxiety</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/WellBeing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>WellBeing</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Suffering" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Suffering</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Attachment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Attachment</span></a></p>
The Zen Art Center :verified:<p>When we cling to our thoughts, desires, and opinions, we become detached from reality—not grounded in the present moment. True presence doesn’t mean ignoring thoughts—it means letting go of clinging so that your mind can meet each moment as it truly is.</p><p><a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Zen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Zen</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Mindfulness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Mindfulness</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/LetGo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>LetGo</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Attachment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Attachment</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Nonduality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Nonduality</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Consciousness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Consciousness</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Awareness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Awareness</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/ClearMind" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ClearMind</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Presence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Presence</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Now" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Now</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Meditation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Meditation</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Reality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Reality</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Dharma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Dharma</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Thoughts" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Thoughts</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/SelfInquiry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SelfInquiry</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/fyFGEYuIRyk" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">youtube.com/shorts/fyFGEYuIRyk</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p>
Maarten Pelgrim<p>How you can grow attachments to "useless" things.</p><p>So I have this old vinyl record player (Technics). It's about 40 years old, and I've had it for 20 years or so. </p><p>It's always had a broken dust cover. Bits were missing, and a couple of cracks. </p><p>Recently, I've bought a brand new replacement cover. The player really looks the part now. </p><p>But I can't quite get myself to throw away the old one. It's been sitting on my desk for about two months now. </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.nl/tags/nostalgia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>nostalgia</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.nl/tags/vinyl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>vinyl</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.nl/tags/attachment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>attachment</span></a></p>
Journal of Alpine Research<p>[New issue]</p><p>"<a href="https://piaille.fr/tags/Ageing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Ageing</span></a> in the <a href="https://piaille.fr/tags/Mountains" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Mountains</span></a>: Between <a href="https://piaille.fr/tags/Loneliness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Loneliness</span></a>, <a href="https://piaille.fr/tags/Solidarity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Solidarity</span></a> and <a href="https://piaille.fr/tags/Attachment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Attachment</span></a> to Places" </p><p>"Mountains, with their slopes and climatic variations, make physical accessibility to more challenging places and landscapes. However, the mountains remain literally inhabited by their older residents, who carry their stories and experiences. Living in these places means benefiting from forms of community and family solidarity that make these lives possible, and even desirable for some." </p><p><a href="https://journals.openedition.org/rga/14466" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">journals.openedition.org/rga/1</span><span class="invisible">4466</span></a></p>

#datafixation Love this concept. A "wordplay that combines #datafication and #fixation. The article showcases how the datafication of #education presents compelling arguments about the importance and usefulness of #data, while remaining silent about the negative consequences of reducing students, learning, teaching, and education to superficial indicators. Such a one-sided view meets the criteria of fixation as anunhealthy #attachment." Pekka Mertala #edtech
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