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ArcMother

Resources for people who weren't/aren't raised right:

Crappy Childhood Fairy (psychologist)
youtube.com/@crappychildhoodfa
#mentalhealth #reparenting #cptsd

HealthyGamer (psychologist)
youtube.com/@healthygamergg
#psychology #gamer #menshealth

Support for people raised by narcissists
reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissis
#abuse #neglect #trauma #narcissists

Substitute parents:

Internet Parents
reddit.com/r/internetparents/

Dad, How Do I? -
youtube.com/channel/UCNepEAWZH
#parents #orphan #nocontact

Support for queer youth
itgetsbetter.org/
thetrevorproject.org/
#lgbt #lgbtq #LGBTQ2S #queer #trans #pride

Support for religious trauma
thesatanictemple.com/
#atheist #religion #cult

YouTubeCrappy Childhood FairyMy name is Anna Runkle: I teach people to recognize and heal the symptoms of Childhood PTSD. I'm not a doctor or therapist. I’m someone who grew up with several alcoholics in the family, and all the dynamics that tend to go with that -- poverty, neglect, violence, and an environment of chronic, deep stress. In adulthood, the telltale signs of Childhood PTSD were all there -- health problems, depression and anxiety, relationship struggles -- but traditional therapies never seemed to help. When I found what DID help, my whole life changed. For more than 29 years I’ve been teaching a program that anyone can use, whether or not they have access to professional help. I focus first on healing dysregulation, and then on changing the self-defeating behaviors that are so common for those of us traumatized as kids. I'm glad you're here!
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Jax UK

Having some hard realisations lately.

My undiagnosed childhood was compounded by emotional abuse and neglect. My mother constantly told me I was stupid and useless and she couldn’t wait to be rid of me.

This view of myself became so entwined with my autism, blaming all my different behaviour and thoughts on being stupid and useless, that at 50 I am finding it impossible to separate them. There’s what I know and what I feel and I know I’m not stupid or useless, but that’s how my autism makes me feel.

I’m gonna need therapy 😂

#actuallyautistic#neglect
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Anna

👉A year later:
thecanary.co/global/world-anal

I’ve tried every level of govt, every service & they won’t help.

Please ask people in if they have somewhere for me to go. Could they take me in (I can pay small rent)? A lot of people have ‘big house, not enough money’ problem. I can help!

Is anybody an #advocate?

I would be incredibly grateful for any help beyond words.🙏

Please read articles for full info

Thank you for reading.

#ChronicIllness @chronicillness #Abuse #Neglect #Housing #MutualAid

Canary · Nearly a year on and severe ME patient Anna is still trapped in life-threatening domestic abuseNearly a year on and severe ME patient Anna is still trapped in life-threatening domestic abuse from Canary on 1 April 2025
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Anna

In case it was missed in the post above, this is my updated article:

👉 thecanary.co/global/world-anal

My doctor predicts I will die if I don’t leave soon.

I need a solid, safe, home I can go to and recover to at least a stable baseline. It’s not full recovery, but it’s better than a slow death.

Help please 🙏

#PwME #LongCovid #MECFS #Hypothyroidism #ChronicIllness #Neisvoid #Abuse #Housing #Dysautonomia #SocialWork #MedMastodon #PWLC #MutualAid
#HumanRights #Press #Housing #Journalism #MECFS #SevereME #Abuse #Neglect #MutualAid #Narcissist #Psychopath #MCAS #MCAD #Endometriosis #ChronicPain #CostOfLivingCrisis #Melbourne #Australia #DomesticAbuse #DV

@chronicillness @longcovid @neisvoid
@disabilityjustice
@disability @socialwork
@dysautonomia @mutualaid
@mecfs
@chronicpain
@mcas
@australia
@melbourne

Canary · Nearly a year on and severe ME patient Anna is still trapped in life-threatening domestic abuseNearly a year on and severe ME patient Anna is still trapped in life-threatening domestic abuse from Canary on 1 April 2025
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Anna

PLEASE HELP ME ESCAPE!

Please #boost and share to other platforms.🙏I don’t have energy left (see below).

Seems I’m famous (and real!) and desperate enough to go to the media for help. Yes, the trapped woman in the articles below is me.

👉Last year:
thecanary.co/global/world-anal

Now things are worse, I’m much sicker, being neglected and will die without a safe stable #home. Doctor’s words.

If not mentioned in the article, my father is a diagnosed #narcissist with #psychopathic & #antisocial tendencies by a #psychiatrist. He urged me get away from my father asap because he is not a ‘safe person’ & neither are the other family members who lured me back through the promise of help.They didn’t help they made me progressively worse to the point of almost incapacitation at stage of #illness.

👉A year later:
thecanary.co/global/world-anal

I’ve tried every level of government, every service and they simply won’t help.

Are able help? Please ask people in real life if they have somewhere for me to go. Could they take me in (I can pay small rent)? A lot people have ‘big house, not enough money’ problem. I can help!

Is anybody an #advocate? I desperately need help.

I would be incredibly grateful for any help beyond words.🙏

Please read articles for full information.

Thank you for reading.

#PwME #LongCovid #MECFS #Hypothyroidism #ChronicIllness #Neisvoid #Abuse #Housing #Dysautonomia #SocialWork #MedMastodon #PWLC #MutualAid
#HumanRights #Press #Housing #Journalism #MECFS #SevereME #Abuse #Neglect #MutualAid #Narcissist #Psychopath

Woman bed in a very dark room with ear defenders and light block glasses.
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OccuWorld

Stopping Unnecessary Jail Expansion with Decarcerate Sacramento

radical-guide.com/stopping-unn

Decarcerate Sacramento is again preparing to mobilize against the Main Jail expansion on February 26 when Sacramento County Board of Supervisors will be reviewing recommendations for the next stage of the $2 BILLION jail expansion, and the community needs to show up and fight back!

#DecarcerateSacramento#ActionAlert#SacramentoCountyJails
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Drew Crecente (they/them)

@ginaintheburg @coreytrina

⭐ Bonus playbook for bad actors:

1️⃣ eliminate assistance

▶️ 2️⃣ food & shelter insecurity leads to childhood neglect

▶️ 3️⃣ neglected kids more likely to engage in violent criminal behavior*

▶️ 4️⃣ prison labor is cheaper than union labor

▶️ 5️⃣ bad actors profit from their bad actions

*One study:
🌐 pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/

PubMed Central (PMC)The roles of housing, financial, and food insecurities in understanding the relationship between childhood neglect and violence in adulthoodThe aim of this study is to determine whether basic housing, financial, and food insecurities in part explain the relationship between childhood neglect and violence as documented in the “cycle of violence” literature. Using a prospective cohort ...
#CycleOfViolence#PublicHealth#NIH
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Anna

A #PWME helper got too sick but found this site:

theroomxchange.com/how-it-works

It matches home owners w ppl wanting to rent a room.

Can’t manage using this page alone.

Currently only very ill ppl are volunteering & drop out fast.

Anyone healthy?

I live w a psychopath (diagnosed) & more! Need. To. Leave!

#Pwme #LongCovid #ChronicIllness #Housing #MutualAid
#SocialWork #CommunityWork #MECFS #Abuse #Neglect
@mecfs
@socialwork @chronicillness
@mutualaid
@disability @disabilityjustice

#SaveAnna Needs: - she needs a quiet room and has qualified for some are support. Can pay rent. If caring can qualify for carer allow and pension of up to $800 a week on top of rent I can pay. - can also provide own meals. * Someone in Melbourne, Victoria, to help to live. - Funding for moving costs & aids until provision can be established. - Andisability advocate who is capable of helping complex cases.
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ProPublica

“A Real Overhaul Is Long Overdue”: Lawmaker Calls On State Leaders to Reform New York’s Beleaguered Guardianship System

A new bill asks Gov. Kathy Hochul and state legislators to overhaul New York’s broken guardianship system. It cites a ProPublica investigation that found the #elderly and infirm living in dire conditions while under court-mandated #oversight.

#News #NewYork #KathyHochul #Aging #Guardian #Care #Neglect #Court #Law #Reform

propublica.org/article/new-yor

ProPublica“A Real Overhaul Is Long Overdue”: Lawmaker Calls On State Leaders to Reform New York’s Beleaguered Guardianship SystemA new bill asks Gov. Kathy Hochul and state legislators to overhaul New York’s broken guardianship system. It cites a ProPublica investigation that found the elderly and infirm living in dire conditions while under court-mandated oversight.
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ProPublica

#Judge Orders Guardianship Firm to Return Thousands It Took From an #Elderly Woman for Services It Never Provided
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#NewYork Guardianship Services had billed Judith Zbiegniewicz $450 a month for court-ordered care, but a judge found the company provided “minimal services, if any” for years, including at the height of the #coronavirus #pandemic.

#News #Court #Care #Regulation #Guardian #Neglect #Abuse

propublica.org/article/new-yor

ProPublicaJudge Orders Guardianship Firm to Return Thousands It Took From an Elderly Woman for Services It Never ProvidedNew York Guardianship Services had billed Judith Zbiegniewicz $450 a month for court-ordered care, but a judge found the company provided “minimal services, if any” for years, including at the height of the coronavirus pandemic.
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anna_lillith 🇺🇦🌱🐖

in their feeder. One hen was filmed hunched over with a twisted neck, whilst another was suffering from a suspected #infection and diarrhea.

This farm has since been suspended by #RSPCA Assured.

Throughout our 'Rotten' investigations we have exposed #suffering, #misery and #neglect at cage-free farms that masquerade as 'high-welfare'. We have laid bare the stark difference between the marketing propaganda of happy free-range hens in fields and the grim reality of thousands of hens

9/11

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Anna

My #abusers are evil. I have to give up appts I’ve waited 12-18 months for & my birthday bc they’re going to make this environment even worse by adding another abuser so I’ll be in sensory overload #abuse/ #neglect hell.

I’ll be lucky to get a cupcake.

I can’t survive this again. Stuffed in a dark room forgotten & getting scraps.

I need somewhere else to live.

Help me 😭

In #Melbourne, #Australia.

#housing
@mecfs
@multipledisabilities
@chronicillness
@dysautonomia
@disabilityjustice

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ProPublica

#Maine Rarely Sanctions Residential Care Facilities Even After Severe #Abuse or #Neglect Incidents
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From 2020 to 2022, Maine’s state health department cited residential care facilities for dozens of resident rights violations and hundreds of other deficiencies.

But it has imposed only one fine in response.

#Health #HealthCare #ElderAbuse #ElderCare #Patients #Doctors #Regulation #NewEngland #Safety #News

propublica.org/article/maine-r

Black and white photo of the exterior of a residential care facility, overlaid with snippets of text that read: "observed resident with shallow breathing, redness all over body and purple finger nails." "Resident #1 was struck on the face by Employee #1." "Based on record review and interview, the facility neglected to protect a resident's health and welfare."
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