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Idris (They/Them)<p>When you’re expecting a telephone appointment call (drs/vet etc) and you answer the call, they say ‘this is whoever, from wherever.’ What do you say?</p><p>I usually just say something along the lines of, oh yes, hello (ask how they are if they asked me.) But there tone always feels like I’ve done something wrong. or unexpected.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autistic</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/RSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PhoneCalls" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PhoneCalls</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/HowDoIPeople" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HowDoIPeople</span></a></p>
ArcadeVintage<p><a href="https://www.discogs.com/seller/EvMustGo/profile" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">discogs.com/seller/EvMustGo/pr</span><span class="invisible">ofile</span></a></p><p>another cache of 7 inch unplayed vinyl added</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/rsd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rsd</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/recordstoreday" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>recordstoreday</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/7inch" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>7inch</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/singles" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>singles</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/thurstonmoore" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>thurstonmoore</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/sonicyouth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sonicyouth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/gratefuldead" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gratefuldead</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/jessejarnow" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>jessejarnow</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/lsd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lsd</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/recordcollector" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>recordcollector</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/vinyl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>vinyl</span></a></p>
🌈 Kerblambuli 🦄<p>Can't stress this enough that RSD is one of the most debilitating and painful experiences, not even with any knowledge of and reasoning about it can I stop my nervous system going haywire. I really positively have to get on top of this, the least I want to acquire is a heart condition because I continue to break out in tears when I'm contemplating about friends and loved ones seemingly (!) turning their back on me although they've clearly not. Distortions <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/RSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD</span></a></p>
kazé<p>Message de service : si vous aviez l’habitude de me parler sur Discord, je n’y suis plus. Je n’ai pas encore supprimé mon compte mais j’envisage de le faire.</p><p>Ça n’est pas une histoire de pubs ou logiciel propriétaire. C’est juste que l’absence d’une vraie fonction de masquage/blocage me rend l’expérience difficile, voire insupportable par moments. Je ne m’en sers que très rarement mais ça m’est indispensable (<a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/RSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD</span></a>, anyone ?).</p><p>Que le Grand Palmipède parsème votre chemin de pétales de rose. 🦆</p>
Coffeedate with ADHD<p>Do you agree? </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/adhs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhs</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/hyperfocus" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hyperfocus</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/rsd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rsd</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/productivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>productivity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a></p>
taco, bird/cat :verified420:<p>me: huh, i'm not following this person anymore. i wonder what happened?</p><p>my trauma from broken previous friendships: [TURNING ON LOUD ANXIETY KLAXON] THEY HATE YOU NOW AND HAVE LEFT YOU! I TOLD YOU THIS WOULD HAPPE-</p><p>me: no, they're right there. they just migrated to another instance.</p><p>trauma: OH. </p><p>me: can you shut off the alarm bells now?</p><p>trauma: I'M NOT SURE I KNOW HOW TO DO THAT</p><p>me: great, thanks</p><p><a href="https://meow.social/tags/RSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD</span></a> <a href="https://meow.social/tags/Trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trauma</span></a> <a href="https://meow.social/tags/MentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://meow.social/tags/Anxiety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Anxiety</span></a></p>
Hugs4friends ♾🇺🇦 🇵🇸😷<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://autistics.life/@hatysa" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>hatysa</span></a></span> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/RSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD</span></a> trigger. It's not in your mind. They truly did just reject you for something you can't change. <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://techhub.social/@hosford42" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>hosford42</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span></p>
Cheshire (Alicja, Artemida and Mara)<p>Many people know what RSD is, even ones that do not suffer from it. But I wonder how many know how it FEELS.</p><p>RSD is a nightmare because even when I know people respect and like me and want me around, I still need, I *crave* that validation. I need it. But I do not want to take it.</p><p>The absurd thing is that:</p><p>1) If I talk to someone, I'm being annoying, a pest, a drain on their energy. If they indulge me, it's because they are kind people. So now I am wasting time of a KIND person, which makes me even worse.<br>2) If I do not talk to someone, I am doing the right thing. Leaving them space, not poisoning their day with my presence. I am lonely but it's necessary. Because I show I care not by giving more, just by demanding less and less. Yes, I know that is invisible. I know it doesn't build bonds, by definition it creates isolation. But that way I am the person that suffers, because nobody needs me. And me suffering is more OK.</p><p>But on the other hand:</p><p>1) If someone talks to me unprompted, they are doing it out of obligation, but I am also so happy and so grateful. They reach out because I am pathetic and they are kind. They are doing me an unwarranted favour.<br>2) If they do not talk to me, which they usually don't, that means they hate me or they hold me in contempt or they just do not need me in their lives.</p><p>And yes, the absurd disjoint between what it means when I don't talk to a person, and what it means when they do not talk to me, it's irrational. I treat me NOT talking to people as the right thing, and them TALKING to me as the same. It's nonsensical. I know that rationally.</p><p>But y'see, you fail to consider that other people are fun, and nice, and smart, and most people are just, pleasant to hang around with.</p><p>I am a waste of space and I need to justify my presence in a person's life, in a place, in a conversation, on Earth.</p><p>It doesn't matter how many times I try to tell myself that this makes no sense. It's the ONLY thing that makes sense.</p><p>Believe me, I am keenly aware of exactly what in my life conditioned me to feel this way. And yet I can't shake it. At all.</p><p><a href="https://meow.social/tags/rsd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rsd</span></a> <a href="https://meow.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a> <a href="https://meow.social/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a></p>
JohnBarronIII<p><a href="https://ohai.social/tags/NowSpinning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NowSpinning</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/GeddyLee" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GeddyLee</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/Vinyl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Vinyl</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/Single" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Single</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/TheLostDemos" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TheLostDemos</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/Gone" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Gone</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/IAmYouAre" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>IAmYouAre</span></a> 2025 <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/RSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/MyFavoriteHeadache" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MyFavoriteHeadache</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/RUSH" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RUSH</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/RUSHBand" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RUSHBand</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/Contemplative" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Contemplative</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/Music" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Music</span></a></p>
Funkatron (Ed Finkler)<p>Today I am dong my best. </p><p>So are you. </p><p>So my neighbor stopped by to ask me about some tree trimming we need to do. We walked across my lawn, and the plants are 4-5” tall. I apologized to him for how bad it looked. He told me that people are ask him if the home was abandoned.</p><p>“When are you going to take care of that?” I mumbled something about the hospital et al.</p><p>My deepest shame, on display for everyone to judge.</p><p>I am crushed. I hate this world.</p><p>If you need help, let me know. </p><p><a href="https://indieweb.social/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> <a href="https://indieweb.social/tags/rsd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rsd</span></a></p>
Pablonius Monk 🇺🇦<p>Good Records co-founder Chris Penn dies at 54 ⏺️ 💿 🎶 </p><p>Penn had suffered a traumatic spinal cord injury after a fall at his Dallas store.</p><p>“Can you imagine Chris’s heaven? I hope it’s filled with Mexican food, pinball machines and a movie theater playing all the classics.”</p><p>🆓🔗: <a href="https://archive.ph/rSJHp" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">archive.ph/rSJHp</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@dallasnews" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>dallasnews</span></a></span> </p><p><a href="https://www.dallasnews.com/arts-entertainment/music/2025/04/24/good-records-co-founder-chris-penn-dies-at-54/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">dallasnews.com/arts-entertainm</span><span class="invisible">ent/music/2025/04/24/good-records-co-founder-chris-penn-dies-at-54/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Music" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Music</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/GoodRecords" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GoodRecords</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Dallas" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dallas</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Texas" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Texas</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/RSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/RIP" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RIP</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ChrisPenn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ChrisPenn</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/RecordStoreDay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RecordStoreDay</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AliceCooper" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AliceCooper</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ErykahBadu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ErykahBadu</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/StVincent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>StVincent</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SarahJaffe" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SarahJaffe</span></a></p>
ChessNord<p>The soundtrack is fantastic. It includes a selection of songs (all performed by Val Kilmer himself) as well as highlights from the film score.</p><p>Great memories.</p><p>Rest in peace, Val Kilmer.</p><p>Artist: Val Kilmer / Maurice Jarre / The Royal Philharmonic Orchestra<br>Album: Music From The Motion Picture Top Secret! (1984)<br>Release: 2025 Remaster, RSD, Clear Vinyl<br>Region: USA &amp; Canada<br>Label: Rusted Wave – RW-023 / 1984-023</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/nowspinning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nowspinning</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/vinyl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>vinyl</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/rip" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rip</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/valkilmer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>valkilmer</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/topsecretmovie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>topsecretmovie</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/rsd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rsd</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/rsd2025" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rsd2025</span></a></p>
emily<p>and no long line! 👏🏼👏🏼 <a class="hashtag" href="https://bsky.app/search?q=%23RSD" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#RSD</a></p>
Tristan Anthony<p>Arrived in the post, my only <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/RSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD</span></a> purchase this year. <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/nowplaying" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nowplaying</span></a> Air: Moon Safari Live &amp; Demos. <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/vinyl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>vinyl</span></a> <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/music" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>music</span></a></p>
R.L. Dane :Debian: :OpenBSD: 🍵 :MiraLovesYou:<p>Happy <a href="https://polymaths.social/tags/easter" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Easter</span></a>.</p><p>I didn't make it to church.</p><p>I really freaking hate <a href="https://polymaths.social/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> and <a href="https://polymaths.social/tags/rsd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD</span></a> sometimes.</p><p><a href="https://polymaths.social/tags/sociallyawkward" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SociallyAwkward</span></a></p><p>I should really sign up for the next class they're doing it in my church, so that I have, you know, a reason to go there.</p><p>I know that's gotta sound really awkward to anybody who doesn't have ADHD, but anybody who does have ADHD will instantly understand what I'm saying.</p><p>Addendum: Structure is <em><strong>everything</strong></em> to the ADHD brain. Just <em>going</em> somewhere, even if you know people, is freaking terrifying. But if there's a class or something with structure, suddenly, you're in your element again.</p>
Luke<p>I don’t normally do <a href="https://c.im/tags/rsd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rsd</span></a> but couldn’t resist this monstrous pomposity <a href="https://c.im/tags/vinyl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>vinyl</span></a></p>
Jon :vinyl:<p>What a beautiful pressing the Jethro Tull is by the way. Summerday Sands has never sounded so good. <a href="https://cupoftea.social/tags/RSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD</span></a> <a href="https://cupoftea.social/tags/TheWho" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TheWho</span></a> <a href="https://cupoftea.social/tags/JethroTull" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>JethroTull</span></a> <a href="https://cupoftea.social/tags/vinyl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>vinyl</span></a> <a href="https://cupoftea.social/tags/RSD2025" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD2025</span></a></p>
Morten M. DK<p>So finally got my DB album by Eurythmics : Live 1983-1989 on vinyl (Greek Release)<br>Together with the RSD Picture Disc (Album : Be Yourself Tonight) ... been quite good Eurythmics week ;-) </p><p>⭐<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Eurythmics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Eurythmics</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/80s" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>80s</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Vinyl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Vinyl</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/RSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RSD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Collecting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Collecting</span></a></p>
Patrick McVeighWell didn’t get everything I would have liked to on RSD but I did grab this <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/nowplaying?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#nowplaying</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/rsd?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#rsd</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/vinyl?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#vinyl</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/vinylrecords?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#vinylrecords</a>
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This is true. And while I people very well in specific domains where there is a set structure (which may actually make me a good manager in certain contexts), I definitely don't know how to people well in general.

For one thing, it kinda sucks when my brain:

  1. Likes to forget that people exist (#ADHD object impermanence)
  2. Always assumes that people are angry/disappointed at me (#RSD / #RejectionSensitivityDysphoria)
  3. Does a poor job of picking up on social cues (#SocialBlindness)

Fortunately, I don't have a severe case of most of these, except for the second one, which is pretty awful.

Also, while I don't like harping on "my story" (because so many have gone through so much worse), I did go through a very "Twilight Zone"-esque experience where I found all of my friends to be, well... nazis or political zombies, depending on how you want to look at it. Of course, that was preceded by about half a decade by an experience of abuse and rejection in my personal life which was pretty terrible, so I'm generally a bit f'd-up in the head when it comes to "peopling."

But I'd still like to improve. I don't live in my past. It's not a happy place, and past me isn't someone I have any allegiance to, in terms of spending emotional energy re-living.

I think there's a lot of freedom in that mindset, honestly. I sure as heck spent enough years chained to the hurts of the past. That's no freaking way to live.