A few hours have gone by and the states are not increasing, and the site is still behaving normally AFAIK, so now I’ll let it run and check counters once in a while.
Such a relief if this fixed it, heading into con is our busiest period of the year and the last thing we need is site reachability problems.
I feel a bit like a digital archeologist, but without the fantastic FreeBSD forums and decades of mailing lists searchable I would never have found a solution.
#DEFCON #FREEBSD