Nate PHedi<p><a href="https://shakedown.social/tags/MinorWisdoms" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>MinorWisdoms</span></a> <br />"Four words that can save your marriage"</p><p>On 7.22.16 Phish played the Forum. Afterwards, I complained to my wife for an hour about Jukebox Trey. She listened (or pretended to) and then said, "I'm sorry. That sucks!" I felt heard!</p><p>I'm a problem-solver, but I've learned to STFU, listen, and say, "I'm sorry. That sucks!" when she has a problem. The ability to vent vent to your partner about life (or awful Phish setlist) and feel heard is the key to a healthy partnership.</p>