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Rayne Hall Author<p>Do some people come here purely to find something to take offense?</p><p>A smut author took offense because I said I personally don't enjoy reading smut. </p><p>The context: I asked for recommendations for books to buy, and listed the genres I enjoy. He suggested his own smut book, I courteously declined. </p><p><a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/writing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writing</span></a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/writingcommunity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writingcommunity</span></a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/writerslife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writerslife</span></a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/writinglife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writinglife</span></a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/courtesy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>courtesy</span></a></p>
PatternChaser<p>I use 3 guidleines in my communication (mainly with NTs, but with sane people too),</p><p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/Honesty" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Honesty</span></a>, <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Courtesy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Courtesy</span></a>, and <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Clarity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Clarity</span></a>.</p><p>Do you have guidelines that you use/prefer?</p><p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/AskingAutistics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AskingAutistics</span></a><br><a href="https://mas.to/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a><br><a href="https://mas.to/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a><br><a href="https://mas.to/tags/AskingADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AskingADHD</span></a><br><a href="https://mas.to/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a></p>
Alison<p>New business rule: if someone schedules a surprise meeting, they have to include the threat level. For example, "Bob 1:1, nothing bad" or "Mary 1:1, your job is safe."<br><a href="https://social.coop/tags/Business" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Business</span></a> <a href="https://social.coop/tags/Courtesy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Courtesy</span></a></p>
Fishercat<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@benroyce" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>benroyce</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mas.to/@Serenus" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>Serenus</span></a></span> <br>@sandwich</p><p>I don't need CW; I'm finding filters sufficient.</p><p>It's a tough question. I strongly agree that engaging with the world we find ourselves in is our shared responsibility.</p><p>And yet: offensiveness is subjective. Why is it *obviously* appropriate to CW sex and violence, topics that not everyone wants or needs a warning for? </p><p>There's a difference between offense and damage. Framing the question as preferences, or what might offend, makes it easier to ignore the people who say lack of CW harms them. Just as framing masking as a courtesy makes it easier to ignore the folks who say your exhalations might kill them.</p><p>When someone says "I need X to protect myself," a reply that sounds like "Y is perfectly adequate.. you shouldn't need X," strikes me as all kinds of wrong. It smacks of "Well, why don't you just.."</p><p>I expect I'll be inconsistent about my use of CW vs. tags. But I'm not going to be offended by being asked (either generally or directly) to put some stuff behind CWs.</p><p><a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/ableism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ableism</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/contentwarnings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>contentwarnings</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/ContentWarnings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ContentWarnings</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/courtesy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>courtesy</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/culture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>culture</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/cw" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cw</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/hashtags" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hashtags</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/MentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/tags" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tags</span></a></p>
Dave Spector<p>Discovered a new passive-agressive trend among GenZ on airplanes: rather then actually get up when you need to get out of your airplane row they just pull their feet up, forcing you to either put your butt or your groin in their face as you pass because the row is actually narrow. <br>…and then they get all huffy. </p><p>When you ask them to simply step out for a moment, they get half out of the seat forcing you into a different set of awkward moves. More indignant looks ensue. </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/flying" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>flying</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/courtesy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>courtesy</span></a></p>
BBC6Music 🎶 #NowPlaying Bot<p>🔊 <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/NowPlaying" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NowPlaying</span></a> on <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/BBC6Music" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BBC6Music</span></a>'s <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/NewMusicFix" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NewMusicFix</span></a></p><p>Courtesy &amp; KLO:<br> 🎵 My Dazed Friend</p><p><a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/Courtesy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Courtesy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/KLO" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>KLO</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://courtesy707.bandcamp.com/track/courtesy-my-dazed-friend-feat-kl" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">courtesy707.bandcamp.com/track</span><span class="invisible">/courtesy-my-dazed-friend-feat-kl</span></a></p><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/track/097wfbHE5h2rHtTA0KWIar" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">open.spotify.com/track/097wfbH</span><span class="invisible">E5h2rHtTA0KWIar</span></a></p>
Silversnapples<p>I can't hold my dog out of the way if I can't hear you coming. <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/cycling" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cycling</span></a> <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/footpaths" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>footpaths</span></a> <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/courtesy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>courtesy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/dogs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dogs</span></a> <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/children" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>children</span></a> <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a> <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/walking" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>walking</span></a></p>
Nando161<p><a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/Courtesy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Courtesy</span></a> of <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/Based" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Based</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/Dinosaurs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dinosaurs</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://href.li/?https://twitter.com/baseddinosaurs" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">href.li/?https://twitter.com/b</span><span class="invisible">aseddinosaurs</span></a></p>
Barbara Anello<p>What's your opinion of the informal request to label political posts with a Content Warning tag? </p><p>Although it's not mandatory to use the <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/CW" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CW</span></a> label here, it's a <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/courtesy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>courtesy</span></a> we can <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/choose" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>choose</span></a> to extend.</p><p>I've been using the CW tag but conflicted how to proceed when boosting political posts w/o CW tag.. To boost or not to boost?</p><p>Would welcome any guidance on this issue and am curious if guideline varies between different "instances" in the <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/Fediverse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Fediverse</span></a>.</p><p>1/2</p>
Smplefy<p>When at the gym, which is worse after using a machine? <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/gym" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gym</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/courtesy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>courtesy</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/weightlifting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>weightlifting</span></a></p>