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@purrperl

Thank you for this comment. I came here to say something similar.

Stoicism is a great thing, but it needs to be interpreted in a way that does not lead to a capitalism-compatible milquetoast philosophy that is then used by privileged people to justify their apathy and egoism.

(similar is true for the way how many westerners understand eastern spiritualism and are then happily more concerned about their yoga mattress and shit than of the living beings around them).

Taking these pitfalls in mind, stoicism and meditation-ish self-care can help a lot to avoid breakdown while fighting this horrible machine. :black_sparkling_heart:

@stoicteacher

I’m glad there’s more conversation around autistic #burnout — that is, the way #autism interacts with stress in ways that make burnout different for us.

But so many of the presumably well-intentioned therapists writing about preventing it give the most ham-handed advice. Using a calendar does not help with executive function issues. Putting ear plugs in at the grocery store does not solve being forced to be in overstimulating environments without support.

#Burnout beginnt langsam … #trumputin

... aber du merkst, dass du überlastet bist, nicht mehr genießen kannst, ungeduldig mit allen anderen, nicht mehr der liebevolle Mensch, als der du mal geschätzt worden bist ... Außer: Du warst es gar nicht. Du warst wie alle anderen hinter dem Geld her, deiner Existenz-Sicherung, dann bis du nicht in Gefahr. Aber wenn deine Freunde* deine Anwesenheit und die Gespräche mit dir schätzten, und du hast grade keine Geduld mehr für sie…

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ketzerbrevier · #Burnout beginnt langsam … #trumputin… aber du merkst, dass du überlastet bist, nicht mehr genießen kannst, ungeduldig mit allen anderen, nicht mehr der liebevolle Mensch, als der du mal geschätzt worden bist … Außer: Du w…
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I used to feel so Pollyanna-ish, I was weirdly happy even though I was sick and disabled and my career and other activities came to a halt literally overnight. I can’t find that optimism right now. I’m angry, I’m grieving my limitations all over again, I feel like I’m going to sob almost constantly. The last time it was this bad was probably #Autistic #Burnout although I hadn’t been diagnosed so that’s a guess. Circumstances were similar—50 stressful life events in a very short time.