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Kevin Russell<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mstdn.games/@doomgirl" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>doomgirl</span></a></span> </p><p>Sane, loving, human male. </p><p><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/TonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TonicMasculinity</span></a></p>
Valerie Roney<p>I just watched Memoirs of a Geisha which is pretty much a movie about a chick crushing on and chasing after a guy that was kind to her once. </p><p>Fyi mah dudes. In case anybody ever told you women don't dig nice guys. </p><p><a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a></p>
Tom 🇨🇦<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://disabled.social/@vlrny" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>vlrny</span></a></span> </p><p>Follow for excellent hashtag <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a></p>
Valerie Roney<p>Oh this is so good! 5min video on stupid toxic masculinity, the isolation it creates in men, and how to shift to more openness and vulnerability for true friendships. </p><p>Filing this one under <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> 💪🧡</p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/lonelinesscorps" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>lonelinesscorps</span></a></span> </p><p>The Psychology of Male Loneliness<br><a href="https://youtube.com/watch?v=qdBavW0x62k" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/watch?v=qdBavW0x62</span><span class="invisible">k</span></a></p>
Valerie Roney<p>New fav thing: <br>Earnest young men with beautiful hearts singing their lil countrified hearts out. <br><a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> <br>Fear is the Mind Killer<br>Jesse Welles <br><a href="https://youtube.com/watch?v=aBXU5MJEB8o&amp;si=VMXX7keAAESU7VHb" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/watch?v=aBXU5MJEB8</span><span class="invisible">o&amp;si=VMXX7keAAESU7VHb</span></a></p>
Valerie Roney<p>☝️ well that was delightful! <br>I think I can even file that under <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> <br>"I am Kenough" 😆</p>
Valerie Roney<p>Filmed off my TV (terrible quality, sorry) a clip from <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/reservationDogs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>reservationDogs</span></a> of men mentoring boys in emotional intelligence. Gotta take care of those heart-nards, yo. Beautiful and hilarious. <br><a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a></p>
Valerie Roney<p>Ok folks! <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/hopePunk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>hopePunk</span></a> weekend challenge! </p><p>Take some time to ponder, and add your own toots to two of my favourite visioning projects: </p><p><a href="https://disabled.social/tags/spoonieTown" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>spoonieTown</span></a> an imaginary place where we've already solved all the problems - what's life like there? What's kind of infrastructure is used? How do we take care of each other? What's a day like? </p><p><a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> - share your favourite examples from pop culture, your real life moments, or men you admire and why. There's so much good to celebrate. 🎉</p>
Valerie Roney<p>Lovely moment of <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> this morning: </p><p>I was out on the porch trying to solve some bizarre mystery of the 4 bolted stool that could only ever thread 3 bolts. <br>Visiting fella saw me and offered to help. He tried a bunch of things, prefaced with "you probably already tried this," exploring the issue. We worked together testing theories. Was ultimately a slightly warped plate that mostly needed strong fingers to force all bolts into place. </p><p>Lovely team effort, zero mansplaining. 💪🧡</p>
Sir Rochard 'Dock' Bunson<p>Fascism weaponizes the <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a> trait of never admitting you're wong. This is made even worse by the fact that they were swindled by a tier C grifter from Queens.</p><p>Combine that with American Exceptionalism &amp; the desire for comfort over all and ~1/2 of America is still denying the reality in front of them. </p><p><a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/TonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TonicMasculinity</span></a> is swallowing your pride, listening to those being harmed long before you &amp; speaking up for them. Especially if your voice is louder than theirs. </p><p><a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/TTJ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TTJ</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Fascism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Fascism</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Masculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Masculinity</span></a></p>
Valerie Roney<p>☝️ <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@kottke" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>kottke</span></a></span> <br>I loved this! Got me some vicarious joy watching folks groove on a fav song. <br> Tagging <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://beige.party/@joybooster" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>joybooster</span></a></span> so I can boost it again later. <br>Also booyah <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> for men talking about their vulnerability n shit. Beautiful. 😘👌</p>
Valerie Roney<p>If your day needs a dose of <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> ...<br>I just watched a Blue Rodeo doc (called Lost Together) and man! it was a masterclass of male friendship, collaboration, conflict resolution, vulnerability, and trust. <br>Fekkin beautiful. <br>Also the music is awesome.🎶</p><p><a href="https://disabled.social/tags/blueRodeo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>blueRodeo</span></a> <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/lostTogether" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>lostTogether</span></a> <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/friendship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>friendship</span></a> <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/masculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>masculinity</span></a> <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/creativity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>creativity</span></a> <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/canadiana" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>canadiana</span></a> <br>cc <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/lonelinesscorps" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>lonelinesscorps</span></a></span></p>
Kevin Russell<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mstdn.social/@unclesam" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>unclesam</span></a></span> </p><p>Tim Walz could help a person to his feet in Time Square and EVERYONE would still vote for him. </p><p><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/TonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TonicMasculinity</span></a><br><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/Dems" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Dems</span></a> <br><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/Walz" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Walz</span></a></p>
Kevin Russell<p>Tim Walz, wonderful man, has announced he will show up in any district Republican cowards have cancelled Town Halls, to help host a Town Hal/ For citizens, who deserve to be told what's going on, and to be LISTENED TO.</p><p>AMERICA is its citizens, not it's arrogant leaders.</p><p><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/TimWalz" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TimWalz</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/Dems" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Dems</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/TonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TonicMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/townHalls" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>townHalls</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/cowards" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>cowards</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/trump" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>trump</span></a></p>
Valerie Roney<p>Filed under <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> this gesture, full of gentle protectiveness and respect for her feminity.</p>
Valerie Roney<p>Imma just gonna drop this gem under the <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> tag. <br><a href="https://varmint.town/@CatsOfYore/111961243375217625" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">varmint.town/@CatsOfYore/11196</span><span class="invisible">1243375217625</span></a></p>
Valerie Roney<p>Ok here's some <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> for ya:</p><p>I am in town for an appt and one of my wiper blades peels right off. I am tired and crabby and urg! </p><p>I pull into a garage in this state, say I need this fixed but also could I just leave my fekkin car here for an oil change and [ranty ranty whatnot] and pick it up next week that would be awesome. </p><p>And dude was super chill and super helpful. Big burly guy, engine greased hands, but calm and kind. </p><p>THIS is the kind of strength we need these days. 💪🧡</p>
Valerie Roney<p>Filed under <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> <br>Something a male friend said to me on a bad day. I know it's hard to know what to say, how to support. Here's a good example.</p>
Valerie Roney<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://zirk.us/@ShaulaEvans" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>ShaulaEvans</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/romancelandia" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>romancelandia</span></a></span> <br>Thank you for these posts. My new obsession is <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a> and I am taking notes of examples in media. <br>Kindness, sincerity, situational awareness, and owning yer own stuff is sexy af. <br>*swoon*</p>
Valerie Roney<p>I am watching S4 of Stranger Things and the tonic masculinity of these young men is ...😘👌<br><a href="https://disabled.social/tags/tonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tonicMasculinity</span></a></p>