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Kevin Karhan :verified:<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://oxytodon.com/@fuchsiii" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>fuchsiii</span></a></span> die <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/CDU" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CDU</span></a> / <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/CSU" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CSU</span></a> - Fraktion hat gefälligst ihr M0wl zu halten wenn es um <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/TonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TonePolicing</span></a> geht.</p><ul><li>Wer <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/Abgoebbler" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Abgoebbler</span></a> wie <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/Merz" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Merz</span></a> erlaubt hat sich selbst von der <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/FDGO" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FDGO</span></a> abgemeldet! </li></ul><p><a href="https://infosec.space/tags/DEpol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DEpol</span></a></p>
🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄)<p>Okay, I want to take a moment to talk about toot-shaming behavior on Fedi. But first, I want to thank the person who blocked me for introducing me to the term "pornado"—I will cherish it.</p><p>So, there's a kind of reply-person on Fedi who seems to like to *vocally* use moderation tools. It's not enough to block or report someone, they have to loudly announce it, to rub it in. It's a "fuck you *slams door*" kind of response.</p><p>I typed out a paragraph defending my OP, but you can see for yourself, it's linked below.</p><p>While discussing where to take this post, my girlfriend pointed out that the behavior whiffs of the same thing I was talking about in my "doubt caltrops" post. It's a way of policing behavior that isn't against any rules, but that *they* find personally objectionable.</p><p>Just filter/block/report as necessary and move the fuck on.</p><p><a href="https://lgbtqia.space/@alice/114203420868896657" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">lgbtqia.space/@alice/114203420</span><span class="invisible">868896657</span></a></p><p><a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/Rant" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Rant</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/TonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TonePolicing</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/Moderation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Moderation</span></a></p>
Ramesh #NotGoingBack<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mstdn.ca/@LoranJohnHayden" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>LoranJohnHayden</span></a></span> <br>&gt;&gt; When they ignore the laws it is past time to take the law into your own hands…</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Toodles" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Toodles</span></a> are another manifestation of this <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/vigilantejustice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>vigilantejustice</span></a> — misusing <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ReplyGuy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ReplyGuy</span></a> when one is merely "annoyed" rather than harassed, <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/tonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tonePolicing</span></a>, and otherwise going on a daily rampage to fragment the <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/fediverse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fediverse</span></a>. </p><p>Even people who went <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/virtueSignaling" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>virtueSignaling</span></a> on <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/UnitedHealthCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>UnitedHealthCare</span></a> CEO went silent on <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Mangione" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Mangione</span></a> after reading the room. </p><p>Would <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/FrenchRevolution" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FrenchRevolution</span></a> have happened with Toodles?</p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://threads.net/@newrepublic/" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>newrepublic</span></a></span></p>
Estelle Platini<p>"This is a confession. I love daytime TV. I smoke, even though I officially gave up years ago. I’m often late, and usually lie about why. And sometimes I feel good when others feel bad.</p><p>"The Japanese have a saying: “The misfortunes of others taste like honey.” […] In Hebrew enjoying other people’s catastrophes is 'simcha la‑ed'."</p><p>Excerpts from the <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/book" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>book</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/Schadenfreude" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Schadenfreude</span></a> by Tiffany Watt Smith: <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20190606171225/https://lithub.com/not-just-a-german-word-a-brief-history-of-schadenfreude/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">web.archive.org/web/2019060617</span><span class="invisible">1225/https://lithub.com/not-just-a-german-word-a-brief-history-of-schadenfreude/</span></a> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/psychology" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>psychology</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/bookstodon" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>bookstodon</span></a></span></p><p><a href="https://techhub.social/tags/pity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pity</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/failures" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>failures</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/empathy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>empathy</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/envy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>envy</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/emotionality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>emotionality</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/frustration" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>frustration</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/discomfort" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>discomfort</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/tonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tonePolicing</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/languagePolice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>languagePolice</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/conversations" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>conversations</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/debates" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>debates</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/blameTheVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>blameTheVictim</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/grievability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>grievability</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/mentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/sadism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sadism</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/bondage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bondage</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/failures" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>failures</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/joy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>joy</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>psychology</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/TiffanyWattSmith" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TiffanyWattSmith</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/bookStodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bookStodon</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/wickedness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>wickedness</span></a></p>
Aral Balkan<p>Your tone will never be right when someone’s salary depends on it being wrong.</p><p>(With apologies to Upton Sinclair.)</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.ar.al/tags/tonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tonePolicing</span></a></p>
M. Grégoire<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://sfba.social/@drahardja" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>drahardja</span></a></span> Why are we talking? Do we want to change minds by discussing things with others, or do we want to shout at them? Granted, both are necessary at times...</p><p>But if we want people who disagree with us to listen to what we have to say rather than ignoring us or shouting right back, then we ought to show them the respect of being polite. That does not prevent us from speaking truths that they may find painful.</p><p><a href="https://cosocial.ca/tags/courtesy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>courtesy</span></a> <a href="https://cosocial.ca/tags/politeness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politeness</span></a> <a href="https://cosocial.ca/tags/TonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TonePolicing</span></a></p>
Estelle Platini<p>Asking people to calm down protects privilege – and silences people who are hurting.</p><p>Tone policing: <a href="https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/12/tone-policing-and-privilege/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">everydayfeminism.com/2015/12/t</span><span class="invisible">one-policing-and-privilege/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://techhub.social/tags/emotionality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>emotionality</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/frustration" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>frustration</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/discomfort" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>discomfort</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/tonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tonePolicing</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/RobotHugs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RobotHugs</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/languagePolice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>languagePolice</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/conversations" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>conversations</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/debates" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>debates</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/blameTheVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>blameTheVictim</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/adultSupremacy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adultSupremacy</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/manliness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>manliness</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/humor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>humor</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/humour" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>humour</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/feminism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>feminism</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/empathy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>empathy</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/grievability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>grievability</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/mentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/school" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>school</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/adultDomination" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adultDomination</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/adultism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adultism</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/maleSupremacy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>maleSupremacy</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/adults" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adults</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/whiteSupremacy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>whiteSupremacy</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/JKRowling" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>JKRowling</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/transGender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transGender</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQ</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQIA</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/transPhobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transPhobia</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/transLaw" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transLaw</span></a></p>
Lazarou Monkey Terror 🚀💙🌈<p>And if you actually think my words are going to instigate a mob that searches out and kills a billionaire.....well you embarrass me with your high expectations, do you think hordes of uncouth working class oiks are hanging on my every word? <br>You think our people are the same as their people and will go on a supermarket killing spree at the sight of a guillotine gif? </p><p>It's saying more about you than us, the 'horde' as you see it....</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TonePolicing</span></a></p>
Lazarou Monkey Terror 🚀💙🌈<p>Did I mention that the guy then patted himself on the back after Tone Policing me, in case you didn't get what all this was really about. </p><p>"Know your place, hide your emotions, doff your cap, you ignorant savage (I have more followers than you, so 'nerrr'" </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TonePolicing</span></a></p>
Lazarou Monkey Terror 🚀💙🌈<p>Liberals telling the Poor to shut up is why we're in this mess.....</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TonePolicing</span></a></p>
Lazarou Monkey Terror 🚀💙🌈<p>"If we scare them with talk of guillotines and Titanic subs they might get angry with us and destroy the world....." </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TonePolicing</span></a></p>
Lazarou Monkey Terror 🚀💙🌈<p>"Why aren't you debating with the Rich, can't you appeal to their better nature? You disgusting savage, I'm glad your kind will washed away really, you're upsetting my property values anyway......" </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TonePolicing</span></a></p>
Lazarou Monkey Terror 🚀💙🌈<p>"Why don't the Poors just do what I tell them to, it's for their own good. Such brutal and savage language, why can't they learn to hide and suppress their feelings so nothing matters and nothing will ever be done, like the status quo (which works quite well for us still) "</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TonePolicing</span></a>.</p>
Aral Balkan<p>“Some of your posts have been reported by a user and I resolved it so far.</p><p>In the future. Please make sure not to insult others and be rude.”</p><p>Here’s my suggestion to the moderators of mstdn.social: Stop tone policing people on other instances. I’m not on your instance and I’ll speak my mind as I like on my own one. If anyone has a problem with that, they can block me. It’s not your job to tone police the fediverse even if you are a mega instance.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.ar.al/tags/fediverse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fediverse</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.ar.al/tags/mastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mastodon</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.ar.al/tags/moderation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>moderation</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.ar.al/tags/tonePolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tonePolicing</span></a></p>
🇺🇦 Sean Prophet ⚛<p><span class="h-card"><a href="https://mas.to/@kims" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>kims</span></a></span> </p><p>Let's not use <a href="https://blacksun.social/tags/tonepolicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tonepolicing</span></a> to blunt Greta's point.</p><p>Face it, when we say <a href="https://blacksun.social/tags/smalldickenergy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>smalldickenergy</span></a> we're never talking about the actual size of someone's dick. So it's not <a href="https://blacksun.social/tags/bodyshaming" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bodyshaming</span></a>, "small dick energy" refers to behavior.</p><p>In 0.00000001% of "dick measuring contests," are any dicks ever measured.</p>