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Laura Manach :bongoCat:<p>Breaking up is never easy, but attempting to weaponize guilt after I've clearly and honestly explained my reasons? </p><p>That's emotional manipulation, plain and simple.<br>When someone shares their authentic feelings and rationale for ending a relationship, the respectful response is to listen - not to try making them feel worse. </p><p>My boundaries are valid. My feelings are valid. And guilt-tripping is never an acceptable response to honest communication.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/RelationshipHealthy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RelationshipHealthy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/selfrespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>selfrespect</span></a></p>
🟡Michael Clifford Carter<p>Respect Yourself Enough to Demand Respect From Others, Even if It Means Letting Some Go. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfRespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfRespect</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SetBoundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SetBoundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/KnowYourWorth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>KnowYourWorth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/StayEmpowered" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>StayEmpowered</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/HealthyRelationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HealthyRelationships</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/GrowthMindset" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GrowthMindset</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ValueYourself" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ValueYourself</span></a></p>
🟡Michael Clifford Carter<p>It’s Not Your Job to Convince Someone of Your Worth; It’s Their Job to See It. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/KnowYourWorth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>KnowYourWorth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfRespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfRespect</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Confidence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Confidence</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ValueYourself" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ValueYourself</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Authenticity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Authenticity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/EmotionalStrength" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>EmotionalStrength</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/StayEmpowered" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>StayEmpowered</span></a></p>
JdeB<p><a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/USpolitics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>USpolitics</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/SelfRespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfRespect</span></a></p><p>"Harris reacts to SNL impression" [ &lt; 1 min]<br>by msnbc</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/shorts/qOA1iPklN_c" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="">youtube.com/shorts/qOA1iPklN_c</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> </p><p><a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/VoteBlue" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VoteBlue</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/UpAndDownTheBallot" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>UpAndDownTheBallot</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/ImWithHer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ImWithHer</span></a></p>
Jon Udell<p>I try not to judge people who feel they must remain on Twitter for professional reasons.</p><p>But it's getting harder and harder to respect that choice. After a long absence I took a peek at my feed there and this is what I saw.</p><p>I'm not naming names. And there are so many of you. How, at this point, do you justify being there?</p><p><a href="https://social.coop/tags/Twitter" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Twitter</span></a> <a href="https://social.coop/tags/CognitiveDissonance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CognitiveDissonance</span></a> <a href="https://social.coop/tags/SelfRespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfRespect</span></a></p>
🟡Michael Clifford Carter<p>I've Outgrown My Old Tolerance; My New Standards Are Non-Negotiable. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/GrowthMindset" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GrowthMindset</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NewStandards" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NewStandards</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NonNegotiable" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonNegotiable</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PersonalDevelopment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PersonalDevelopment</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SetBoundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SetBoundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Evolve" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Evolve</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfRespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfRespect</span></a></p>
Sweet Home Alaberta 🇨🇦 🇺🇦 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@realTuckFrumper" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>realTuckFrumper</span></a></span> <br><a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/SelfRespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfRespect</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/AbortionAccess" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AbortionAccess</span></a></p>
🟡Michael Clifford Carter<p>Refuse to Engage in Arguments with Individuals Who are Committed to Misinterpreting Your Words or Actions. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AvoidNegativity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AvoidNegativity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/HealthyBoundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HealthyBoundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PositiveInteractions" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PositiveInteractions</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Misunderstanding" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Misunderstanding</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ClearCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ClearCommunication</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/StayingAboveConflict" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>StayingAboveConflict</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfRespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfRespect</span></a></p>
Dave Herrick :canada:<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0C1eei_-96U" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/watch?v=0C1eei_-96</span><span class="invisible">U</span></a><br><a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/jazzeducation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>jazzeducation</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/PatrickBartley" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PatrickBartley</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/selfrespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>selfrespect</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/honesty" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>honesty</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/DontSayNah" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DontSayNah</span></a></p>
🟡Michael Clifford Carter<p>Moving On from Toxic or Unfulfilling Situations Is a Sign of Strength and Self-Respect, and It Opens Up Space for Positive Growth and New Opportunities. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MovingOn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MovingOn</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfRespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfRespect</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PositiveGrowth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PositiveGrowth</span></a></p>
Alex Kintner’s Mom<p>I hope there's karaoke at our office party tonight. I've reworked holiday lyrics to Love Shack.<br><a href="https://mstdn.party/tags/officeparties" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>officeparties</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.party/tags/karaoke" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>karaoke</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.party/tags/selfrespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>selfrespect</span></a></p>
Clayton Hollingsworth 🥉<p>I'm a nice guy from <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/California" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>California</span></a>, and any prounouns will do. I try to put out positive vibes. I love making people smile. I have a graduate degree in how to keep people alive.</p><p>Things I like: <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/dogs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dogs</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/gym" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gym</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/hotguys" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hotguys</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/humanrights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>humanrights</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/mindfulness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mindfulness</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/photography" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>photography</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/healthcare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healthcare</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/kindness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kindness</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/sexytime" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sexytime</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/ethicalporn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ethicalporn</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/cannabis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cannabis</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/friends" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>friends</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/selfrespect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>selfrespect</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/wit" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>wit</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/podcasts" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>podcasts</span></a> </p><p>Things I'd like to change about me: <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/consistency" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>consistency</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/worrying" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>worrying</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/pleasingothers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pleasingothers</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/tryingtofixeverything" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tryingtofixeverything</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.lol/tags/usinghashtagsforeverything" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>usinghashtagsforeverything</span></a> </p><p>Tell me something good!</p>
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