But yeah, like, it's not (all) individual men, masculine people, and nonbinary or agender people who look like them lumped in.
It's the systemic reinforcement of valuing ANYONE over ANYONE ELSE. That's it. The shitty hierarchical thinking needs to stop and we all benefit.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-e1Z4AlOdmE
omfg. If you hate your spouse and can't do couples counselling, DIVORCE THEM. LEAVE THEM. YOU BOTH DESERVE HAPPINESS AND CONTENTMENT. The kids don't deserve you sniping at each other, Robert. Find your own passions in life, Brenda. Split up already!
The epitome of a real man / woman / person / any gender or lack therreof is "respecting other people, including with conflict resolution AND constructive critique WHEN ASKED (or urgently required)."
Don't want to vaccinate yourself or your family? Look up measles. Learn why people donated to eliminate polio. Guess what got rid of smallpox? You don't want diptheria. Oh yeah, and consider whether you want to host a shitton of malaria parasites in your blood and liver cells.